Today I want to talk about sexual cords. I’ll spare you the story of how my journey led me here, but I’ll share what I’ve been doing and how it’s affected me. I’m not going to lie to you this is some serious woo-woo shit, but after what I’ve experienced thus far, I’d be a fool to discard any of it. Let’s dive in…
Sexual cords are energetic attachments we form with anyone we have sex with. This includes the long-term partner as well as the one-night stand. A brief look online shows us that this concept can actually be found in most spiritualities and religions, albeit of different names and descriptions. Basically, whenever you have sex with someone, an energetic bond is formed, no matter how “casual” the encounter. This can be a positive, spiritually affirming bond or, depending on the situation, it can be a bond that has serious consequences in the long-term. I’ve personally encountered one of latter types (without previous knowledge of this), and I can’t begin to describe the amount of suffering that followed.
So the question becomes, what can we do about it?
I’m certainly no expert, but I’ve managed to pull together a sort of action plan. Here are the steps I’m taking to release myself of every sexual cord I’ve ever created:
Prayers/rituals to release the bond.
This can be according to whatever type of spirituality you align with.
Removing all remnants of past lovers, no matter how positive or negative.
This includes throwing out all those trinkets, clothes and books you’ve held onto without much thought. It also includes deleting all contact information, text message history, pictures, etc. It’s my understanding that it doesn’t work unless you fully commit to it.
Ghost treatment & Chinese herb regiment.
This is a type of acupuncture treatment that’s specifically designed to free the body of negative energy and entities, and the herb regiment aids the process in the week afterward. I’ve done this before, and it’s fucking wild.
Clearing.
There are actually spiritual masters who do energy and entity clearing. They are not easy to find, but I have an in-road into one and plan on trying it out.
Before you dismiss me as crazy, give some of these a try. Some really wild shit has started to come up inside me as I’ve moved through the process. I had no idea how much all of this was affecting me until I basically started acting on a hunch (with help from a random Youtube video I encountered), and at this point it’s too late to go back. It has brought up a tremendous amount of pain and anxiety, but it also has opened up a door to a type of freedom I haven’t experienced since I was a child. I’m only getting glimpses of it as I’m only a few steps into the process, but I can say for certain that I see it.
Look, I’m not one to go full woo-woo about anything. I try to be as rational and pragmatic as I can be on any given topic. But sometimes, logic and rationale aren’t enough. Sometimes, the pain we experience is so strong that it forces us to look beyond the things we experience with our senses. This is just one of those things. I’d love to hear your thoughts.